{"id":270,"date":"2016-12-30T23:07:00","date_gmt":"2016-12-30T23:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/2016\/12\/30\/love-doesnt-always-win\/"},"modified":"2016-12-30T23:07:00","modified_gmt":"2016-12-30T23:07:00","slug":"love-doesnt-always-win","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/2016\/12\/30\/love-doesnt-always-win\/","title":{"rendered":"love doesn\u2019t always win"},"content":{"rendered":"

There\u2019s a sign popping up around my neighborhood in various people\u2019s yards. It\u2019s produced by a group called Nasty Women Get Shit Done PDX<\/a> (that link goes to their Facebook page). Proceeds from sales of the sign go to producing more signs for sale and to Lutheran Community Services NW Emergency Housing Fund<\/a>, which provides financial assistance to incoming refugees. Here\u2019s more information on where to buy the sign<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I think it\u2019s great<\/i> that these women have produced these signs, and I\u2019m pleased to see them around town. The sign says:<\/p>\n

\n<\/a><\/div>\n
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<\/i><\/div>\n
\nThe text:<\/div>\n
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<\/i><\/div>\n
\nIn Our America<\/i><\/div>\n
\nAll People Are Equal<\/i><\/div>\n
\nLove Wins<\/i><\/div>\n
\nBlack Lives Matter<\/i><\/div>\n
\nImmigrants & Refugees Are Welcome<\/i><\/div>\n
\nDisabilities Are Respected<\/i><\/div>\n
\nWomen Are In Charge of Their Bodies<\/i><\/div>\n
\nPeople & Planet Are Valued Over Profit<\/i><\/div>\n
\nDiversity is Celebrated<\/i><\/div>\n

\nI don\u2019t have the sign in my yard, and that has surprised some neighbors that know me.<\/p>\n

Again: I’m pleased to see the sign – I like that people are taking such a strong, public stand. It’s nice to know I’m surrounded by people that don’t agree with the incoming Presidential administration. It gives me a great deal of comfort.<\/p>\n

But I have three problems with the sign:<\/p>\n

1) I really hate calling the USA \u201cAmerica.\u201d The USA is a part of \u201cAmerica.\u201d So is Canada and Mexico and all of Central America and South America. I get told off on this point every time I travel and meet people from these regions. It’s an exhausting conversation.<\/p>\n

2) The sign should say \u201cImmigrants & Refugees Are Welcomed<\/b>\u201d, with a \u201cd\u201d at the end.<\/p>\n

3) This is the really big one, the primary reason I don’t have the sign in my yard: because of the part that says \u201cLove Wins\u201d. Because love doesn\u2019t win. Unfortunately, very often, love loses. Very often, love doesn\u2019t even come into play in the fight.<\/p>\n

Love didn\u2019t free the slaves in the USA – a war, a burning sense of social justice by many people (but not the majority of people), legislation and a minority of people with a lot of power did.<\/p>\n

Love didn\u2019t win World War II – the better militaries did.<\/p>\n

Love didn\u2019t prevent the Holocaust.<\/p>\n

Love didn\u2019t give women the vote in the USA.<\/p>\n

And love didn\u2019t win on November 8, 2016.<\/p>\n

I have a huge amount of respect for those that are responding to the horror in the USA with a sense of love. That\u2019s great. Good for you. I’m not telling you that you shouldn’t have that value.<\/p>\n

But I just cannot manage love in the face of evil. It would be hypocritical of me to put that sign in my front yard.<\/p>\n

It will take something monumental to restore my faith in humanity, for me to believe that love wins<\/i>, and, quite frankly, I think it\u2019s impossible.<\/p>\n

I haven’t given up on life, or this world, or even this country. I\u2019m going to keep fighting – non-violently, of course. I won\u2019t repeat myself on how, I\u2019ve said so quite plainly in earlier blog entries. But I confess that, for me, love has nothing<\/i> to do with it. I fight because I value ethics, justice, humanism, equality and the planet. Not from a sense of love as much as a sense of righteousness.<\/p>\n

Good luck out there, everybody.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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