{"id":68,"date":"2022-01-09T17:36:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/2022\/01\/09\/50-years-ago-i-started-on-a-life-changing-path\/"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:36:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:36:00","slug":"50-years-ago-i-started-on-a-life-changing-path","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/2022\/01\/09\/50-years-ago-i-started-on-a-life-changing-path\/","title":{"rendered":"50 years ago, I started on a life-changing path"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I realized recently that, exactly 50 years ago, I was in kindergarten. It was at a time when kindergarten was a radical idea in most of the USA &#8211; most kids were NOT in kindergarten, because there weren&#8217;t that many and it wasn&#8217;t required. I also attended preschool there. And for that, my mother got some pushback from her in-laws, my paternal grandparents, who felt strongly that she should stay at home with her children all day. And this radical idea of pre school and kindergarten was embraced by a Baptist church in my hometown in Kentucky. Yes, a Baptist church, one that my family didn&#8217;t even attend. I miss those days when Baptist churches were radical in the right ways&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I loved kindergarten. My teacher was &#8220;Miss Pat.&#8221; We sang, we had naps, we had snacks and we learned our letters via the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Letter_People\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Letter People<\/a> (Mister T had Tall Teech, Mister M had a munching mouth, Miss A was sneezing &#8220;Achoo&#8221;, etc. I remember one class where we each got to be a country. I wanted desperately to be Mexico, but wasn&#8217;t &#8211; and I don&#8217;t remember what I ended up being.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This experience, plus <i>Sesame Street<\/i>, plus my grandmother reading to me regularly, is where why my vocabulary grew so much. It&#8217;s where I learned to ask fully developed questions and to be able to explain more, being able to talk about my cat or a movie I saw or something I wanted to be someday. I was a sponge, and at last, I was getting to drink in knowledge &#8211; something I was oh-so-thirsty for. I liked being on my own, learning to manage my own things, my own &#8220;work space.&#8221; And I loved playing with other kids &#8211; the kids in kindergarten were so much nicer to me than the kids in my neighborhood. They didn&#8217;t bully. We all just seemed to want to have fun, and we wanted everyone else to have fun too.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I remember only three students though: Demetrius, my mother&#8217;s favorite, who I met again in junior high as DD, the most popular guy in school; a young girl with red hair who didn&#8217;t seem to understand the concept of ownership and thought everything was hers for the taking; and a guy whose name I never forgot, I don&#8217;t know why, but in his 30s, he was involved in either the murder of a woman of the disposal of her body, and killed himself as police were closing in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I remember the Fall of that year, when I started first grade, and watching some of the kids who had not gone to kindergarten: they were screaming, wrapped around their mother&#8217;s ankles, begging to be taken away. They struggled in the classroom. In each grade, every time I would watch them talk back to a teacher, try to cheat on a test, or struggle with reading aloud, I&#8217;d wonder if it was because they didn&#8217;t go to kindergarten.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m so grateful that my usually very conservative mother put me in pre school and kindergarten. It should be an experience every child has.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I realized recently that, exactly 50 years ago, I was in kindergarten. It was at a time when kindergarten was a radical idea in most of the USA &#8211; most kids were NOT in kindergarten, because there weren&#8217;t that many and it wasn&#8217;t required. I also attended preschool there. And for that, my mother got [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-68","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=68"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=68"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=68"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coyotebroad.com\/blawg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=68"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}